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Surely it can be!
Glenn said:About the kid, I think it's just a general thing that kids are too honest at times, you know? They just don't hold back when they should, because they don't know any better. I think I was fussed at for saying that someone was fat to their face when I was a kid.
That's awesome. You win.Mike Cash said:You could have knocked her over with a feather when I told her, "Yes, I can".
I knelt down at her level and told her that anybody, Japanese or foreigner, would be pleased if such a cute kid said hello to them, in Japanese or English, and that she should try that next time.
Absolutely. That's something I've been trying to say for a while.The best way to fix people's attitudes and actions is person-to-person, one person at a time.
I said it before, I'll say it again: we really don't. Well, we don't use "immigrant" as derogatory ever because 75% of us on the East Coast are descended from immigrants. As for foreigner, I already said that to many Americans, status as foreigner is considered temporary and/or a choice.Hachiro said:Oh sure just like the word "immigrant" or "foreigner" in English can be deaming too. Do you or anyone for that matter, complain about the term when it is used in English?
Gaijinian said:Surely it can be! I have studied Japanese language and culture ヒ?ェツ青カナ椎凪?督ス for over half of my life,
and yet I am still an outsider just because I was not born in Japan...
Mike Cash said:This whole "Oh woe is me....I'm doomed to always be an outsider because of my birth. How tragic to have it brought home to me by this horrible term, gaijin" crap is waaaaay the hell overplayed by people who think that just being within the borders of the country or having studied the language/culture out of a damned book is the price of admission to insider status.
We English speakers have the expression "in the same boat". Japanese have the expression ツ"窶慊ッ窶堋カ窶敕鯛?堙ーツ食窶堙≫?堙??堋「窶堙ゥツ". You want to be inside....get in the damned boat. 99% of foreigners in Japan stand on the pier and look at the boat and wonder why they're not considered sailors.
We English speakers have the expression "in the same boat". Japanese have the expression ツ"窶慊ッ窶堋カ窶敕鯛?堙ーツ食窶堙≫?堙??堋「窶堙ゥツ". You want to be inside....get in the damned boat. 99% of foreigners in Japan stand on the pier and look at the boat and wonder why they're not considered sailors.
In other words, it is all based on outlook. In the United States, the culture has a very inclusive attitude. Being American is a matter of choice, not birth. In most countries, including many other Western countries, that isn't the case. And Japan, with its dualistic view, is very exclusive.
I'm getting a bit tired of repeating myself on all these threads about this word, think what you want to think. You want to think that you are being discriminated against because someone calls you gaijin, go ahead. Did I ever say it couldn't?The word can absolutely be used offensively
Would I be out-of -the loop if I haven't? Oh, I forgot I was talking to the man who has been in Japan so long that he lost track of the actual amount of time he's been there....Mike Cash said:Have you ever even been here?
It is not the term, it's the use of the term. I know I'm not Japanese--that's a given. But, I am human; it shouldn't be that much of I shock that a fellow ningen, nihonjin or gaijin, can use chopsticks, ect... Really what it comes down to is ignorance, rather that the actual term.This whole "Oh woe is me....I'm doomed to always be an outsider because of my birth. How tragic to have it brought home to me by this horrible term, gaijin"
What does my age have anything to do with it...? First, I'm not good enough for this conversation because of my short amount of time spent in Japan (surprising Mike Cash would make that an issue), and then because of my age... Sorry for interfering in your forum, Mr. Cash-sama. Moushiwake arimasen.I glanced over at your age and suppressed a giggle.
Random side note: I've also seen this as "窶慊ッ窶堋カナ?ヒ懌?堙娯?敕鯛?堙ーツ食窶堙≫?堋ス (I guess te'ru could also work)."窶慊ッ窶堋カ窶敕鯛?堙ーツ食窶堙≫?堙??堋「窶堙ゥ
There are in all countries. Nevertheless, it is easier to become an American and accepted into American society as one than most other countries.Hachiro said:Excuse me, the US is also exclusive of foreigners as well, and the word immigrant still carries negative connotations to many.... There are plenty in the USA that think the same way as well about "damn foreigners" or "immigrants"
I'm not making judgements. I'm pointing things out. I'm not arguing that the Japanese should change. I'm not attacking their outlook or their way of life, nor am I criticising their language and idioms.You think Japan is exclusive, go to China, from what I hear they are even worse.... I am tired of people judging Japan and it's people before taking the forests out of their own eyes.
So, by your logic, anyone should be able to say the word "nigger" then? And don't say that the word is loaded and has 300 years of history behind it, either, that'd be a cop-out.You know what you got it all wrong, it's only offensive if someone has a chip on their shoulder that allows themselves to be offended by the word.
Yes, I have, actually. And I do believe they might be biased, but that doesn't make what they have to say any less important. Honestly, much of what Maciamo has said has blown away many misconceptions I've had. But don't let your opposition to their claims bolster your own bias, Hachiro. I take everything Maciamo says with a grain of salt, but I believe some of it deserves to be said nonetheless. No society is perfect, and the good has to be taken with the bad. Too many people discuss the good and not the bad sometimes.Have you or anyone else here for that matter noticed...
I know precisely how long I've been here, just like every other gaijin does. I just choose not to make a big deal out of it or pretend it means anything.Gaijinian said:Would I be out-of -the loop if I haven't? Oh, I forgot I was talking to the man who has been in Japan so long that he lost track of the actual amount of time he's been there....![]()
I must have missed your personal story somehow.Anyway, obviously I have been there, or I could not have told my personal story (kangaetoitekure)
Alright....it comes down to ignorance.It is not the term, it's the use of the term. I know I'm not Japanese--that's a given. But, I am human; it shouldn't be that much of I shock that a fellow ningen, nihonjin or gaijin, can use chopsticks, ect... Really what it comes down to is ignorance, rather that the actual term.
This is what your age has to do with it:What does my age have anything to do with it...?
Sarcasm isn't your strong hold. Either practice up on it or give a rest entirely.First, I'm not good enough for this conversation because of my short amount of time spent in Japan (surprising Mike Cash would make that an issue), and then because of my age... Sorry for interfering in your forum, Mr. Cash-sama. Moushiwake arimasen.
I'm not making judgements. I'm pointing things out. I'm not arguing that the Japanese should change. I'm not attacking their outlook or their way of life, nor am I criticising their language and idioms.
No society is perfect, and the good has to be taken with the bad. Too many people discuss the good and not the bad sometimes.
Mike Cash said:"Oh woe is me....I'm doomed to always be an outsider because of my birth. How tragic to have it brought home to me by this horrible term, gaijin" crap is waaaaay the hell overplayed by people who think that just being within the borders of the country or having studied the language/culture out of a damned book is the price of admission to insider status.
This is totally true. It is true you'll never be an insider or truly accepted. But it also accords you a variety of opportunities. This doesn't mean you should go nuts like Tom Green and block escalators and do other ridiculous stuff like that just to mess with their Japanese minds, that's asinine. But it does mean that you may be accorded a degree of leeway that many Japanese would not be.Pachipro said:Foreigners have been whining about this term forever and it seems they will continue to do so for all eternity. Accept it and move on or go through live with a chip on your shoulder. The choice is yours.
GodEmperorLeto said:It is true you'll never be an insider or truly accepted.
Thought I'd give it a try...Mike Cash said:Sarcasm isn't your strong hold. Either practice up on it or give a rest entirely.
If I hadn't believed the above, I'd still be stuck teaching English like everybody expects a good little white boy to do.
A mind block which generations of foreigners have used as an excuse to remain comfortably in the little gaijin niches the Japanese expect them to be in.
People overlook the very obvious fact that even within our own countries there are places and circumstances in which each and every one of us will find ourselves either rejected or marginalized for one reason or another.
Japanese aren't immune to this. Being Japanese isn't a carte blanche pass to acceptance in all places in Japanese society. Neither is being a foreigner an automatic bar to acceptance in all places in Japanese society.
It's just too easy too fall back on that us/them dichotomy and assume that everything is closed off due to Japanese xenophobia/racism/cliquishness rather than try to move beyond the stereotypes.
Tokis-Phoenix said:I was wondering, what sort of definition are we giving to "racial slur" right now? Gaijin isn't really a rascist term because it is not directed towards any races/nationalities in particular or anything, but rather just a general (even if sometimes not a very polite/respectful) term given to anyone who isn't japanese.
I think people just don't like the term gaijin a lot of the time because they don't like to be made to feel like an outsider all the time or grouped up into steriotypes etc. Are there actually any other names or words for foreigner in japan (respectful/polite or not) apart from gaikokujin? .
If not, then what else can japanese call people who are foreigners to the country? Just curious :? ..
Gaikokujin is a fine word for "foreigner." What gets our hackles up is that the average Japanese person seems to use the word "foreigner" about 40 times more often than the average person in any other civilized country. Half the time, they use the word "gaikokujin" when the words man, woman or person would suffice.Tokis-Phoenix said:Are there actually any other names or words for foreigner in japan (respectful/polite or not) apart from gaikokujin? If not, then what else can japanese call people who are foreigners to the country? Just curious :? ...
What gets our hackles up is ...
I guess you have a rather shallow knowledge of Japanese to make a statement like this, you are expecting the Japanese people to use Japanese as a English speaking person uses English, and that just isn't going to happen.Half the time, they use the word "gaikokujin" when the words man, woman or person would suffice.
But what you said about Santos is interesting. But, 窶愿コ窶怒ツ人 can be used to describe not only ethnicity, but citizenship - there is no other term as far as I understand (but someone correct me if I'm wrong, I've only had a year of Japanese and I know I have much to learn). This being true, then it stands that ニ但ニ陳?椎?ニ谷ツ人 would be perfectly suitable for someone from the US instead of ナ?Oツ人. But ナ?Oツ坂?伉人 is still legit - but just a much broader term. Technically (though not in my limited experience in Japan - which will broaden some this summer ^_^), ナ?Oツ人 can be used to refer to someone who is not of your group, such as a professor from another university. Whether this is used in practice or not, and how common it is (referencing my limited experience), I simply don't know.Alex Santos ..."Nihonjin desu."
If someone complained about the way that many American southerners refer to black people, would you say, "Don't criticize them. That's just the way they use their language."?Hachiro's textbook said:Vocabulary
person (Japanese) - hito
man (Japanese) - otoko
woman (Japanese) - onna
person, man, woman (non-Japanese) - gaikokujin