gaijinalways
puzzled gaijin
- 15 Jan 2006
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Japanese people shouldn't be blamed as a whole if you don't like the word gaijin or the way you are treated by some people there, because every country has people who won't welcome other people because they don't like people from other counries or whatever.
Gai-jin means not Japanese and gaikogu-jin means foreigner. Gai-jin-san means, mr don't know your orgins. Gai-jin-san has nohing to do with racism... its very simple
Yeah, It is very simple.. it is a kind of persecution complex
you are using "Gaijin always" ,right?I would suggest that you try the same 'Japanese' behaviour when you go to the US or any other developed country and see if people think it's normal
"they just don't know any better" is pretty condescending, don't you think?I always find it funny when someone refers to me as
On the greater subject, I think that gaijin is pretty offensive, but I also don't blame the Japanese for using it. As many posters have rightly pointed out, they just don't know any better, and they don't have the experience with foreigners to understand that some people might be offended.
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I always find it funny when someone refers to me as
On the greater subject, I think that gaijin is pretty offensive, but I also don't blame the Japanese for using it. As many posters have rightly pointed out, they just don't know any better, and they don't have the experience with foreigners to understand that some people might be offended.
"they just don't know any better" is pretty condescending, don't you think?
Perhaps they don't even care if they offend an occassional foreigner. Lord knows they don't mind offending each other!
I've seen Japanese people be rude to each other so many times it's not even funny. Almost never someone to a customer, but just people on the street, or customers to whoever they're doing business with.I've never gotten that impression. Many Japanese in other ways would go out of their way to avoid even the appearance of offending someone, but for some reason using 'gaijin' when other choices are available does 'seem' to show an unawareness of how offensive its usage is seen by some of the people it is directed at.
As to whether it's life threatening, well no, it's not. But it doesn't leave me with a warm feeling while living here.
I hear you Mikawa. I am very aware of some people being rude in public space areas in Japan, but often this rudeness is more of the nonverbal type where people sometimes don't seem to use common sense, i.e. blocking doorways, talking loudly on a mobile in the train, etc........Almost never someone to a customer, but just people on the street, or customers to whoever they're doing business with.......
"they just don't know any better" is pretty condescending, don't you think?
Perhaps they don't even care if they offend an occassional foreigner. Lord knows they don't mind offending each other!
Well, I don't feel like arguing this point, so I guess we'll just have to disagree on this one.
is much more to my liking.All I'm saying is that people from a multicultural country will be more culturally sensitive and aware than a homogeneous country like Japan.
Well, to be honest, I don't know. Seeing as I have never been offended by the use of the term, it honestly hasn't come up in conversation much. Oh, I'll admit that there was a time when I tried to avoid it's use and say more specific terms in its place, but then I realized that I wasn't helping the situation at all. It just made me sound more like a gaijin, and I ended up having to explain too much.True.. but do you know many Japanese people who wouldn't be responsive to a comment to the effect of "hey, if you call someone a gaijin-san, they could actually be offended by that since it's a very generic alienating term" ?
I don't think it's a conscious thought. But I do think it's true, nonetheless. Don't get me wrong; I am not necessarily saying this is a bad thing.I don't think Japanese are so callous as to feel like they're "playing their own rules on their own turf, so we don't care about foreigner opinions".