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How to say "how much do you like me?"

MilkyLen

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In Japanese, of course.
It's for a friend. She's asked on yahoo answers, but the answers she got were all different, and we want this to be correct.
I'd appreciate the romanization.
And thanks in advance.
 
what's the context? and what were some of the answers you received?
 
1) Ikura boku ga suki no?

2) Anata wa watashi ga dono gurai suki no (desu ka?)

3) Watashi no koto, dorekurai suki nano?

This is what I got.

And basically, I'd just like to know how a girl would ask a guy, how much he likes her.
 
your context is still a little vague; the established relationship between the two people will determine the way the question should be worded.

That said, I'd go with 3, if the people involved are close.

anyone want to elaborate on any semantic difference between the use of "dono gurai" and "dore kurai" here? They seem pretty much the same to me, maybe the difference between "how much" and "to what extent"
 
They are pretty close, so I'll go with the third one, like you said.
Thank you for your help
 
They are pretty close, so I'll go with the third one, like you said.
Thank you for your help
One thing, I would not be asking a Japanese speaker "how much they liked me?" . The question is too dirrect especially in a delicate situation. Unless you are absolutely sure the person really does like you and in this case it looks like thats what you want to find out I would stay away from that question.
 
I know I wouldn't ask a native speaker if I needed help just formulating the question. It works on sort of a light joke level if you're asking a favor and maybe prompting with exaggerated hand motions at the same time to indicate "how much" is enough. Otherwise they really, really won't know how to respond and like Dave said it only ends in embarrassement for both parties.
 
Like me?

It is too straight forward to me! Filipino and Brazilian girls always asked me this question. At a loss, I was always like, "a lot (I guess)." Usually less after they asked that.
 
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