Hi from Japan and welcome to the forums.
On an interesting and somewhat related note i feel this thread would be of interest to you:
If You're Desperate for Love, Stay at Home!
Thats not to say dating a japanese lady is somehow forbbiden, simply that this thread gives you a chance to learn the truth, and give a good long hard thought before you decide to whisk a japanese lady away to the states because you may feel the japanese women are somehow more desirable then the native ladies of your country.
However you have come to the right place to learn about japan, this isnt a dating site that tries to convey the oriental mystery of asian women, this is a site about japan, for tourists, expats, japanese, and thoseツ interested in japan, and fair warning.....Japanese women are just as much a handful as western women.
Either way i hope you find a nice lady, western, japanese, or pokadot, aslong as shes right for you.