I've got a retired geisha as my relative
Hello everyone, I'm new to Jref and this is my first post

I happened to have a relative who used be a geisha and ran an "Okiya ツ(窶冰窶ーツョツ)" (an establishment/agency which manages registered geishas) after her retirement as a geisha. Many of my extended family are very fond of traditional Japanese style entertainment, so we still enjoy traditional sort of party ツ(窶ーニ停?ーテッツ) with geishas from time to time (not often though).
There's one thing I could assure from my personal experience - geishas are not prostitutes. Whether or not getting engaged in a relationship with a particular customer is up to the geisha, yet in fact, having a relationship with a customer is considered rather a shameful act. But when it happens, the relationship is just like any normal one between two individuals - nothing to do with selling and/or buying sex.
Actually, geishas are excellent artists who had to come through elaborate training process, and they play a very important role in preserving the culture in my country. And because they are so skilful in music, dancing, playing games, talking and everything, 窶ーニ停?ーテッ with geishas is a real fun even for a female like myself!!

I got really scared and nearly jumped out of my skin when the first time I saw geishas in the partiy, though (I was like 5 yrs old at that time).
It's really sad to know majority of the people are under the deep influence of widespread misconception...
BTW, enjoying 窶ーニ停?ーテッ with geishas is not always that expensive, depending on the place, occasion, or the number of geishas/窶ーニ停?ーテッ attendees. For instance, hato-bus ツ(窶堙坂?堙?弛ニ湛ツ) offers a very good deal to have a glimpse of geisha world

Punch in ナ竹ナステ陳 窶堙坂?堙?弛ニ湛 in google search box and you get the link!