I think Yukio Michael is being unfair. For the record, I am old (26), it is ten years since I have been schoolgirl.

I don't appreciate being bundled in with "rabid fangirls" simply because I like j-rock and write comments about it in forums. :box:
It is true, there are some threads that just say "sexiest" or "prettiest" or whatever; to be honest, once I have said my opinion I find those threads a bit boring. If it's boring to me, I don't bother to visit it. End of story. It doesn't take that much figuring out.
But looking at pictures ain't so bad, is it? How many guys have some posters or pictures of sexy girls somewhere around in their house or like to take a look at sexy pictures every now and again? (I don't mean porn, I mean just bikini pics or something.) Well, do you think the females in this forum (and there are actually not only females here either) have mags with pics of buff blokes tucked about the place? No. Why? Because this sort of place has "our" eye candy. It's our equivalent of the Pirelli calendar. We find the guys attractive.
If you think I'm talking crap, go visit the Entertainment Gallery in this forum and look at the pics there. Y'know, the ones of scantily-clad girls. Then stand up and tell women we're shallow to like pictures.
On a more mellow note, I personally LOVE THE MUSIC. Well, the music of certain bands, so I post about them and ignore threads about bands I don't like. The reason I don't post about j-pop is because I'm not that keen on pop music (I like some pop-ish stuff, but in general it just doesn't appeal to me as much.)
Dollporn said:
it just so happens that there are not enough fans of Ayumi, Hikaru Utada, Morning Musume, W-inds and the likes on this forum for those threads to live...
Well said.

That's about the size of it. It's as simple as that: people will post about what they are interested in; if there becomes many j-pop fans on here, well then, those threads will become dominant.
Um, on other subjects... the carving of "Dir en grey" words, I agree also with Dollporn on that... it's not good to hurt yourself...

It is one of those things that many people do, but that doesn't make it ok.

(And I am not saying I have never done it, although never such thing as band name.

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Nicknames, I don't use them. I don't know why but I just don't feel like it's respectful to the person. But to shout out their name at a concert or something, that's normal though isn't it? ☝ It's just a way of showing your support.
