Actual its a brother of someone i know that doesn;t live in japan. He is engaged to the woman in question. Apparently he told his family that the baby can't be taken home from the hospital until they are married. They planned to get married anyway so i don't think it was a ploy from her to get him to marry her. I said from the moment i heard about his story that i thought it was bul s#$@%$%^^T hahahaha