Tom Zdanius recently spent his 57th birthday alone in the Iseikai International General Hospital in Osaka. He suffered a stroke in Japan last month, and has been lying in bed racking up medical bills of about AUD5,000 a day ever since. His brother Lukas Zdanius said it was a terrible situation for the family. "He is partially paralysed, he has lost his voice and ability to eat, and a couple of other things," he said. Mr Zdanius said learning that his brother, who is from Yamba in NSW, had gone overseas without travel insurance caused the family "a lot of angst". "It is a cautionary tale, for sure," he said.