Hmmm, it really is difficult to explain even in Japanese...
隔てる means (1) there's something (or space), or (2) to place something, to prevent the direct contact etc. between the two.
# 日本海は日本とアジア大陸を隔てている。 [T]
The Japan Sea separates Japan from the Asian Continent.
Alternatively we can say
日本とアジア大陸は日本海で/日本海によって隔てられている。
This fits the above (1), Japan Sea lies between Japan and the Asian Continent. (So Japan and the Asian Continent are separated.)
# 彼は私たちと道を隔てた反対側に住んでいます。 [T]
He lives across the street from us.
And this is an example for (2), we might say
He lives on the other side putting the street between us (= he and ourselves).
I hope this helps a little.