GAIJIN is not complimentary
My guess as to why we would use it would be that we want to, ironically, show that we are a part of the Japanese circle by showing a knowledge of the language and how it's used, but perhaps it also shows a sense of comaraderie amongst non-Japanese and serves to bring us closer together and comfort us....
Don't mean to take someone's post out of context with selective quoting and sorry if it perhaps renders their meaning somewhat niave ...
With the fair bit of bad feeling a large number of foreigners cause here in Japan, i doubt that GAIJIN will ever be a word to identify with. But i'm sure it is inevitable that many will suffer from such a grouping and labelling...though personally i am not content with the fact that i am lumped together with every other white guy simply because i am white...i mean the fact that i resemble a foreigner does not mean i am one! And, why should i have to bear the cross for someone else's bad behavior? What i mean is that in this country-much more than elsewhere- with a word like GAIJIN, it is easy to bring up a clear image of others with distinctly negative connotations.
...here's an example if anyone cares to read on:
Tonight i went out to get a Kilkenny draft ( basically the only reason i go to a certain bar, and had a troubling conversation with a Japanese guy (pretty decent fellow actually...oh, and he has travelled the world apparently...even Bosnia). A few things he said clearly revealed the tendency people have to prejudge others. He is a bit sad, he said, to see foreigners chatting up Japanese girls ( the assumption being that guys think girls are easy...and that all and every guy has a one track mind) Later he told me about these African guys who stand out on the street propositioning passing girls AND selling weed...
Perhaps he is simply an envious *** who sits at the bar and watches guys score time and time again, but i think his position or point of view vis a vis foreigners is indicative of the problem facing most of us here in Japan: integration
If what he said is true, then:
Are white guys just wolves and pigs??
Are black guys reluctant to enter bars??
Are we all quite simply unwanted out on the town at night??
i mean it's really stupid to think a guy can't be friendly in a pub, for chrissake!
( incidentally, did you know about a recent law in Tokyo (municipal law) that cites as harrassment any dialogue on the street with a passing woman? This law now exists to protect them from professional snack and soapland scouts...)
Perhaps soon drinking establishments will start to segregate customers...
Hey guys, next time you meet a nice girl at the bar don't leave her to go take a pee. The barman(gaijin or japanese) might just profit from your absence to tell her you are a dangerous sexfiend...well that could happen anywhere in the world really...
"You know i really dislike crows. They squack and flutter about and they peck at the trash and i just wonder if there is any way we can eliminate them from my town...or even the nation! All crows are bad, right? "Well i guess foreign sexfiends are a real pain too, but let's be thankful they're only picking up garbage..."
Do ya get it?