I don't understand it though, I mean, if they really disliked gaijin as much as everyone seems to say they do, they wouldn't even want to adopt a hair color like blonde because it's 'foreign' >0< So I am wondering if they really hate outsiders as much as everyone says?
I'm not going to say that Japanese dislike foreigners, so much as Japanese dislike change, maybe, and that's perhaps an exageration, and I'm late for work so I wont elaborate until later.
What I will say however is that, when Japanese adopt Western styles, Jeans, hair-colour, fashion, what-haveyou, its not simply because they wish to
emulate the West... Japan is an isolated nation, full of people whose goals and desires do not mirror those of peoples outside of it... They may take cues from Western culture, but this doesn't necissarily mean that they are trying to "be" Western.
I simply think, as stated, there is a lack of cultural exchange that keeps both parties (Western & Japanese) in the dark when it comes to understanding one another...
Some folk dislike foreigners for whatever real or emagined reasons, others like them so much they seek them out in night-life and attempt to gain sexual favour with them.
Most Japanese people are probably in the middle.
It's funny, I don't know whom said it, I think Nietzsche, but it's that people, in moments of intense self-scrutiny rarely regard themselves as absolutely mundane and normal... We imagine ourselves as either devils, the hated gaijin, or angels, the hot-gaijin who all the Japanese ladies love.
No one seems to think in rational terms about their relationship to the Japanese, we paint ourselves as either the hated, or adored.