Cheers Kara, but it seems I've found one.
I'm her Giraffe and she is my bunny! (please feel free to be sick!)
We met in person right away which was a good idea. She has been pretty straight with me (I think), but I will proceed with caution this time.
I know it is freaky that I like japanese women, but I can't help it.
I've always liked darker ladies.(English, Chinese, Japanese, Italian, Spanish, African, Welsh(!), mixed race etc...) but I tend to get on well (apart from my ex pen pal!) with japanese women, even just on a friendly level. I like the politeness and sense of humour.
Last friday I got on the train home to my poxy satellite town, and I'd say about 60% of the women (and men) were well on their way to being dangerously obese. All slobbering drunk on the train stuffing sh*tty food into their heads, and being loud and aggressive.
This is why I am turning away from the women of my own country.
Sorry about this, I don't want to insult English women. Of course there are many lovely ones, but unfortunately they don't want a 'gay looking' skinny video engineer who has a rough accent!
But I don't really care any more...