DemstarAus
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- 6 Jul 2011
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You are going to find it very difficult to get by in a homestay situation with such strict dietary requirements. I agree that you absolutely must lay it on the line with the homestay organization/family beforehand. From my experience with HS students who have been on homestays in Hokkaido, you will not be treated specially or any different from the family, which will mean eating what they eat. It's their home, after all.
Just curious, but would it be seen as out of the question if she were to prepare her own food? Then they would not have to worry about her dietary habits.
I understand that any way I look at it, I'm imposing myself in their home environment - not just from a dietary perspective. I wonder if helping to prepare my own food is considered rude or a welcome hand? I don't really have any idea of 'modern Japanese home dynamic', I just don't want to cause too much extra work.You are going to find it very difficult to get by in a homestay situation with such strict dietary requirements. I agree that you absolutely must lay it on the line with the homestay organization/family beforehand. From my experience with HS students who have been on homestays in Hokkaido, you will not be treated specially or any different from the family, which will mean eating what they eat. It's their home, after all.
I would think that parents in a homestay would think it's strange, yes. After all, they are the ones opening their homes to a visitor, and most would probably expect visitors to eat what is served. Asking to have reign over the kitchen would probably make Mom feel very uncomfortable. You would not be a homestay visitor then; you'd be an independent person.Just curious, but would it be seen as out of the question if she were to prepare her own food? Then they would not have to worry about her dietary habits.
The Japanese vegetarians I have met in the past 14 years have not been the die-hard types that you are. They may not each meat, a few rare ones don't eat fish, but they eat things prepared with fish stock. Restaurants also don't consider themselves to serve meat sometimes if they can't see chunks floating (even though the stock may be from pork or fish).There are also lots of homestay families that offer vegetarian meals, but I'd like to be more involved.
Well good for you, numb nuts.i am a vegetarianist
I would think that parents in a homestay would think it's strange, yes. After all, they are the ones opening their homes to a visitor, and most would probably expect visitors to eat what is served. Asking to have reign over the kitchen would probably make Mom feel very uncomfortable. You would not be a homestay visitor then; you'd be an independent person.
Japanese stoves are pretty funky, too. Usually just 2-3 burners and a tiny fish grill. You'd have to get used to that and maybe a microwave with controls in Japanese. I would think stocking shelves/fridge with your own basic foods would seem out of place to the family, especially to one that is used to fish stock, fish slabs, fish toppings on rice, and shaved fish (bonito). I hope the smells wouldn't make you sick (some vegetarians claim that).
The Japanese vegetarians I have met in the past 14 years have not been the die-hard types that you are. They may not each meat, a few rare ones don't eat fish, but they eat things prepared with fish stock. Restaurants also don't consider themselves to serve meat sometimes if they can't see chunks floating (even though the stock may be from pork or fish).
Do you eat dairy products or eggs?
Well good for you, numb nuts.
I think this is a great idea. Then you will not have to worry as much about accidentally offending anyone. When/if you make friends you can talk to them about it so that perhaps they will understand you. After all, everyone has different needs in life, not just when it comes to their diets.The more I think about food in Japan, the more I'm thinking it may just be easier to save up some more money and stay in a hostel or something so I can do my own cooking. Siiiiiigh.
Time to learn some Kanji!
Tofu, oil, veggies, ginger or garlic maybe? Some starches like noodles, rice or wheat, some seasonings...and there you are.Tofu and water, and your good to go. You could even use the water that comes with the tofu to save money.
This sounds like a good idea. This will put aside any confusion or weirdness and is easy for people to understand.One thing that may help is to say you are allergic to fish- That will rule out all things made with fish stock. I have a friend who is actually allergic to fish and has spent a lot of time in japan on several occasions, and never seemed to have a problem.
Well, half of an entire aisle can be various soy sauces, for one...After all, how difficult can it be to buy rice and soy sauce at a grocery store? Vegetables are easy, I just have to look at them.
The kanji you are learning probably won't help much, if at all. Basic studies don't give you the necessary vocabulary to read product labels.