Hello caster51,
Thanks to my father I grew up in one of the most beautiful countries in the world. And yes it was a Dutch colony before the war, and yes it made Holland a very rich country. As from 1925 Holland sent more better educated Dutch people to their colony and many more Dutch women. At the same time quite some Indonesians went to Holland to the Dutch universities.
There were only 120 000 Europeans ( not only Dutch) living in the colony, but there were thousands more Eurasians living on the islands, especially in Java. That was the basic group of our lives in the former Dutch East Indies.
The Dutch often went back to Holland when their pension started.
There were far more Japanese and Chinese people living in the former Dutch colony than Dutch people.
Not every Dutchmen loved the former Dutch East Indies caster51, some even hated the colony. My parents liked the country and the people, especially my father. But I have loved this country with all my heart. I could have stayed there all my life if Sukarno had given me that chance.
On the whole, believe it or not, the Indonesians and Dutch got on very well as individuals. My father was loved and respected by the Indonesians, and so were many other Dutch people in those days.
What Holland did after WWII in Indonesia, was/is also wrong in my eyes.
I don't believe in war, one must be able to talk things out. Holland made a very big mistake in those days. Maybe not Sukarno, but quite some other Indonesians were absolutely willing to talk with the Dutch government.
You can see my website as a small piece of history, because I belong to the last European generation of those who grew up in fascinating Asia before World War Two.
Also today I am very interested in Indonesia. I read The Jakarta Post daily, I pay the school for 12 children in Indonesia, form Java, Sumatra and Kalimantan and correspond with those lovely children. I have many CD's with Indonesian music. I am more than interested in everything about Indonesia of today. My love for Indonesia and the Indonesians didn't end when Holland lost their colony.