Do any of you have experience living as 外国人 in rural Japan? I have always wondered what it's like. Here in Denmark, most immigrants live in urban areas where integration is a mixed bag (the young ones who go to school are integrated well and have Danish friends whereas their parents often have very little contact with Danes except in relation to their children (day care, school, etc)). In rural areas, however, they are often included as there aren't generally many people around and everyone knows everyone. 'Oh, you mean Muhammad over on King's Road? Yeah, he's my mechanic, too"
Many years ago, I used to read a blog written by a pair of young, Dutch people who moved to a tiny town way out in the Japanese country side. The girl spoke only rudimentary Japanese but quickly became part of the community because she joined in all the local activities, among others a committee of sorts where they planned festivals and stuff? The young man, however, who spoke Japanese rather well and had lived in Japan for a few years never really felt as if he belonged. Being more reserved, he would jokingly lament how easy it was for his bubbly girlfriend to connect with people she could barely communicate with.
I always wondered if their experience was a rarity.