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Officially Sickened

When someone is getting sexually harrased I am pretty sure someone will hear that, if they have headphones on or if they are sleeping.

I am sure that not everyone have heard it, but some must have heard something wasn't right.

According to the story, all that would have been audible is clothes rustling and a girl crying. Using what I hear alone, I'm not sure I would have gone out of my way to approach a strange couple with the female in tears.

I can't help but focus my attention on the paralyzing fear this woman must have been under to a) not scream initially, b) not scream when the train made a stop and personnel that obviously would not have been wearing headphones might have heard, and c) not try to make a break for it at a train stop. The threat of stalking/murder is clearly scary and she may not have been thinking clearly, but it seems that flight would be an almost automatic response once the train stopped. I'm obviously unable to truly empathize as an American male who's never been in a situation where my life was truly threatened, but it's tough to understand the thought process of the victim much more than that of the rapist, particularly with concern to her faith in the system and society around her to give her the aid she would need had she asked for it.
 
This is shocking... I hate rapists, they are the lowest. But, why on earth didn't anybody interfere! Maybe it's becuase, people don't want to get hurt. But then again, so many people, and they are afraid of one person!? I don't get it...

Hurt? They could have gotten off the train and called the station staff. They could have moved to a different car and informed the conductor. They could have called the police on their phone, who would have waited at the next station, and with the cooperation of the station staff arrest the man, on the spot, and charge him with sexual assault (something I have seen - the guy jumped off the platform and was chased by no less than a dozen police officers and station staff, and manhandled back on to the platform. Nothing screams "guilty! book me guv!" like that.

But none of the people did so. No one even said anything. Thats just disgusting.


I've seen Japanese men in suits drag similarly dressed men in suits off the train on a weekly basis, weirdly always at the same station, not before, not after. (don't ask why its always there). Its not always ignored

her faith in the system and society around her to give her the aid she would need had she asked for it

And this is what has shook me the most. Can I have faith for people to help me when I need it? Can I have faith for people to help the ones I care about when I am not able to?

Doesn't feel much like it now.
 
I am absolutely stunned after I read the article. I wouldnt doubt a second to smash his head..
 
Was that directed to me in particular? Or was it a general commentary?
Sorry Mike, that was against people in general. I didn't have time to check Jref earlier, so please accept my apologies.
 
Seems that everyone who lives in Japan eventually utters these words!
I came to the sad conclusion that Japan isn't the dreamland everyone fantasized about after being there, and learning more and more about Japan. It's the same in almost all countries, except when they hear it about Japan, they seem more shocked :?
This is actually a good thing when you compare it to life in America, but it is sad that the Japanese take it a bit too far!
Indeed, it's the same in Finland btw, lot's of drunks, but everyone is scared to even do something, so they just let them.
 
That story disgusts me, but it doesn't shock nor surprise me. A year or so ago in Osaka my girlfriend fell off her bike on the footpath, just as she was on the ground another cyclist, a ojisan she thinks, rode straight past her, completely ignoring her. That infuriated me. However another time, my girlfriend was riding on the back of my bike (as everyone stupidly does in Japan) when she suddenly fell off, falling forward onto her hands. Of course I raced back to to help her, but a few people who were also there ran over to see if she was alright too.
 
This is unfortunate.. and you wonder how many crimes go unspoken or unpunished simply because the offender plays a game of chance to the likelyhood of someone standing up to them, and in this case wins. I know the desire to help and interfere is great when you are removed from the situation but honestly how many people can say when they are put in an actual situation where interfering will put them at actual risk they can choke down their own need for self preservation to help? Most people can't. This is not just a Japanese thing- -its a human thing. There are those who look down and there are those who stand up.
 
That article can really ruin your day... Its so sad because there were so many options to help her without being in direct danger. This is a sad look into moral judgment these days.
 
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There was another news article last night that made me feel sick (but nowhere near as strongly as this one), and relates to a case that occurred 7 years ago.

A man whose name goes unknown as he was only 18 at the time entered someones home with intent to rape them. He killed the woman when she resisted, and killed the baby as well because it wouldn't stop crying. The husband has been very vocal and I hope that he gets the result that he hopes for.
http://mdn.mainichi-msn.co.jp/national/news/20070627p2a00m0na013000c.html

And then there is Obara and Lucie Blackman. I hope they find him guilty and let her and her family finally rest, and give him the rope.
 
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I meant to post yesterday, but had some things to do, then forgot. Thanks for the update on that !! Regardless of how sad it may be, I tend to much more agree than not, that due to possible mental damage, even (or in spit of maybe) people who act out things like this, are stuck in that frame of being...and will more likely than not (not impossible, though) never be able to overcome that brain mapping. Putting them out of the social network might very likely be the best thing to do. No acquittal needed.
 
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