- 5 Feb 2005
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You are right, and maybe the word bored isn't the right feeling. I do not have enough time to do certain things that I would like to do in life, and neither the money at the moment. It's a good life lesson, and especially in having more patience.
I wake up at 6:30 prepare breakfast for my kids, bring them to school and start work at 9:30 until about 9 ~ 11 at night. I come home watch a movie and fall asleep and this for 5 days a week. In the weekend I spend time with my kids, and just like Dave, I would take them to the park. The sad thing about this is that it feels like I have to take them instead of wanting to take them... or even worse (better, I guess it depends on how you see it) they want to go with the park with you (when they are older they might not want to play with me anymore).
There are too many things that I have to do, and I can't do the things that I want to do. These days I really start to think that I have gotten into marriage too early, and it does make me wonder if I will stay with her (it feels like I am only with her for the kids at the moment).
Regarding, getting an affair... I have thought about it, and it might make life more interesting (living in Japan, and being married makes it easier to understand why someone would cheat on another and the idea of getting married and staying together with that person for the rest of your life and never cheat on him/her is just not realistic IMO).
I have decided to start my own business from now on during after work and have set myself a 1 year goal to stop working at my company and go semi-full time by next April.
Enjoying the small things in life makes life more interesting and I try to focus on those kind of things. Going to onsen by myself late at night, watching a movie, meeting with friends, eating good food, running, etc. My wife told me the other day I live like someone whom is single, and I guess she got a point with that.
I wonder what my life would look like, 1 or 2 years from now.
I wake up at 6:30 prepare breakfast for my kids, bring them to school and start work at 9:30 until about 9 ~ 11 at night. I come home watch a movie and fall asleep and this for 5 days a week. In the weekend I spend time with my kids, and just like Dave, I would take them to the park. The sad thing about this is that it feels like I have to take them instead of wanting to take them... or even worse (better, I guess it depends on how you see it) they want to go with the park with you (when they are older they might not want to play with me anymore).
There are too many things that I have to do, and I can't do the things that I want to do. These days I really start to think that I have gotten into marriage too early, and it does make me wonder if I will stay with her (it feels like I am only with her for the kids at the moment).
Regarding, getting an affair... I have thought about it, and it might make life more interesting (living in Japan, and being married makes it easier to understand why someone would cheat on another and the idea of getting married and staying together with that person for the rest of your life and never cheat on him/her is just not realistic IMO).
I have decided to start my own business from now on during after work and have set myself a 1 year goal to stop working at my company and go semi-full time by next April.
Enjoying the small things in life makes life more interesting and I try to focus on those kind of things. Going to onsen by myself late at night, watching a movie, meeting with friends, eating good food, running, etc. My wife told me the other day I live like someone whom is single, and I guess she got a point with that.
I wonder what my life would look like, 1 or 2 years from now.