Bikaben,
PLEASE go and read the FAQ here and read all the links I gave you! You obviously have not.
Do you have a choice of what kind of school? Your choice (after you get a bachelor's degree) is limited to the following:
JET Programme ALT position
dispatch agency ALT position
conversation school (eikaiwa) teacher
The ALTs usually get placed in public schools, and JET puts them mostly in rural environments. Those are about the only 3 options you have. Whether you "choose" to apply to any or all of them is entirely up to you. Japan is saturated with English teachers right now, so you really don't have much of a "choice" in picking jobs.
Salaries. PLEASE read the links. You will find the info you seek. Salaries are going down here. JET still pays the most (300,000 yen/month). Eikaiwas and dispatch agencies pay ON AVERAGE 250,000 yen/month before taxes. Many are paying less. Negotiating is usually fruitless, especially for someone fresh out of college.
"Good enough to settle in Tokyo"? Please, this is far too subjective to answer. Tokyo is the largest city in the country. Therefore, there are more people including foreigners there, so obviously some people have found it "good enough". Who can say for you?
I realize you seem fed up with the USA. Only you know why, and if you feel like explaining here, go ahead. At least, it'll give us something to go on. As far as finding a place to settle here, I strongly urge you to do research first, visit more, perhaps establish a network of pen pals or such, before making a huge leap to leaving your country, especially at your young age. You really don't know what it's like here. Perhaps worse conditions than where you are right now. I guarantee it won't be easy, especially at first, and especially if you don't know the language. If you want to condider locations as part of your research into choosing where to apply for jobs, my usual reply is to ask what size city do you feel comfortable in, and what sort of climate suits you (or doesn't)?
Pardon me for being a bit harsh here, but you say you want a Japanese girlfriend. Pretty narrow minded. You should just be thinking of having a girlfriend... PERIOD. You seem sure that you want your future kids to be educated in Japan, but you haven't a clue what education here is like, do you? Learn.
I visited Tokyo last year and I really liked it.I mean,when I was there for 2 weeks,I thought i was home for the first time ever.I mean,Ive never had more fun in my life.I love Japan and nothing will stop me from my dream..Japan has everything I need and I want.
Two weeks in Tokyo is
nothing compared to people who have been here for years. Two weeks in your own city for a foreign visitor is not enough to give them an idea of what
life if like in your country, isn't it? Think about that. "Nothing" can stop you? Good, that means you will get the proper preparations, or you
will be stopped, even if that means you come here and work for a short time only to realize you weren't fully prepared to last longer. Vacations are a nice way to sightsee, but they are a horrible way to learn what
living and working somewhere is all about. I hope you can see that. If not, look below.
So wheres a good city to settle at?The Yamamote Line in Tokyo?
The Yamanote Line is not a city. It is a loop of the JR train system. Either you have terrible writing skills (not a good point for a budding teacher of English), or you have terrible notions of geography, despite spending 2 weeks here (even more scary).
Other type of work here? You can get whatever you are qualified for. That means education, experience, and language skills. Non-teaching jobs usually require far more Japanese skills than teaching jobs. Far more! Compare your country now. How would a non-English speaking person compete for jobs there? Even having experience in a job back home would be meaningless if they couldn't speak/read/write English at a fairly high level, right? (We're not talking about orchard pickers, of course. But even they must understand some of the language for survival.) Go to
www.daijob.com to see what non-teaching jobs are around, and you'll see that most of them require bilingual (to some degree) workers. (Also read the advice articles there by Terry Lloyd.) You might also want to see what general jobs are being offered by looking at
www.jobsinjapan.com or
www.japantimes.com (classified ads). And, even bilingual workers must have something to offer in the way of experience over that of a local Japanese person with a similar eduation. Just being a foreigner means nothing, no matter how good you feel you are at some job. The pat question that gets thrown around forums is, "What can you offer a company here that a local Japanese person cannot do?"
Stop reading things here so fast. You are only going to attract the ire of some of us, and I'm considered one of the more patient people on half a dozen forums. Plus, I'm older than your parents, I think.