Hi, distressed. What I do want to congratulate you on is the fact that you've learned how to live as a foreigner in Japan. I may never get to even visit Japan, but I still want to learn the language (I've been learning it for a few years now) and become able to communicate.
I am 34. I work for a major software company. I game a lot, I sing a lot, I hang out with my children a lot. *^_^*
Please feel free to share your experiences of living in Japan; I'd love to hear about them.
I hope things continue to get better for you, too!
-Aurura