Hehehehe.
Well, about being elitist, I have a good example, just look at yourselves saying "j-rock" lots of times, eventhough we are in a japanese music forum, you have to remind it everytime.
It is damn elitist to say "j-rock" when it is JUST ROCK, you sound like it is unique, and japanese created it.
Anyways, when I started to say just rock, pop, punk or whatever it is (yup, without the stupid "j" before it) people get interested on it, just for fun or curiosity.
About rabid fangirls, you just have to go to an anime expo, right?? (or a Visual Kei forum

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I think there is a more dangerous kind on fan: the one who can't look further from the same 5 bands: X, L'arc En Ciel, Dir En Grey, Malice Mizer and _________ (put your favorite band there ^^) and thanks to that, good bands or projects are minimized or rejected.
Believe it or not, people relate "j-rock" with otakus, and we all know what kind of people otakus are.
That's my experience, if you match with one of the things I've said, I'm so sorry
