You find Zen in self not in the outside world.
"I didn't want to admit it, for fear of coming across as a pretentious dick. You need to be in a certain circle of people to confidently state you love it."
Return to self. It is not important what others think. Some people on this forum think I am a pompous dick (or a frustrated foreigner with a boring life
because I spoke up my mind about few things, and voiced my not very popular opinion. They also created certain image of me. But that is of no importance. Try to learn how to ignore the human weed, cultural trash, and aesthetical noise. It is all about a balance between what you think of yourself, and not crossing the boarders which your conscious is well aware of.
I dont like Shakaspeare, I find his books boring, but it doesnt mean that you are automatically a boring person or a puffed up *****. You are different and different things tickle your fancy. Why do you care what others think of you? Again, ignore whatever is around and be at peace. Then you will find Zen even in Harajuku's public toilet.
Now let us wait a 5 min, when some person, who lives according to what his neighbour says, comes in and rape my post apart. I put such posts occasionally when downloading pictures from my camera to my PC to kill time lol.
I don't really care about liking Shakespeare publicly. I was talking about in high school when I wasn't as comfortable with myself. All the same, I try not to be a pretentious dick now, just cuz.
Anyway, yeah, truth is, there is zen in washing your dishes and eating lunch. It's everywhere. But, I guess I'm looking for a place where the concept is cultivated, and that seems uncommon here.
The opinion of others is sometimes important though, when we have a misshapen view of ourselves. Seeing ourselves from others perspective can teach us a lot <hint, hint>
Zen is not something to be defined, is it? As in the previous reply, how about Japan as a place that cultivates zen...
I find Japan a very distracting place in many ways, and the people and culture seem so focused on material things and form over function that I don't think I could ever find any form of Zen there. Then again my goal has never been to practice Zen or work on my spirituality, and I like Japan for what it is. As you say, the world has kind of carried the torch for Japan in this respect, but in the process I think it's been over-exoticized a bit. Do we look at what the majority of people in a country believe and do everyday and say THAT is their culture? Or do we see culture as standards from times past, and standards which the people themselves believe represent them but which only an extreme minority still practice? I tend to go with the former, so the lack of "Zen" doesn't really surprise me.
PS Have you ever read anything by Alex Kerr??
YES. I like Japan for what it is. That experience in the gardens in Kyoto was at least 7 years ago. I've moved well on. The reason I thought it worth asking:
I just finished reading Buddha by Tezuka (it's amazing). Lots of Buddhist 'path to enlightenment' and 'the way' talk in it, and was discussing it with my (Japanese) wife, and were discussing the differences between South Asian Buddhism and Japanese Buddhism. This led us to talking about Taoism, and she had heard the term, 道教, but it's meaning was vague. The long story short, similar to what I wrote in the first post, it's a little surprising to me that the Zen fusion of Tao and Buddhism plus native religion is something that is unique to Japan, and is famous around the world, but it isn't well-known or well-understood by the people here. It's really not the same, but as a Canadian, I hear about hockey from Japanese a dozen times a year, and though I hate the sport, I understand what people like about it. Zen is not as prevalent as hockey is in Canada
So I agree with your post tokkyo. The country has moved past that as a culture. While there is a good design sense that might tap into wabi/sabi, it really isn't part of the current culture, just a small minority.
I do find a bit of zen ideals in some of the traditional arts, like calligraphy and ikebana, and even in the Okinawan schools of karate that focus on movements and never spar. Some of these arts focus on movement and action over conscious thought.
I haven't read Alex Kerr. After finishing that Buddha manga, I dug into the Alan Watts I had, since it had been so many years. I last really read anything on the topic in my 20's, and would like to check it out again as I head to my 40's, to see if the perspectives hit me differently.