No, no, sorry for my too much abridging.
I thought that に is used for "when," rather than を
Right. When a clause is nominalized by とき, the particle に is used.
10ページ書き終わったところで、パソコンが動かなくなった。
10ページ書き終わったときに、パソコンが動かなくなった。
You can think these ところ as "a scene/situation in an action/movement."
~ところを is close to ~のを, the verb used in the main clause expresses the action of the subject of the whole sentence. The all example sentences are the descriptions about "me." In #1 and 2, the subjects of 撮られる and 起こされる are "I," whereas the subjects in the main clases in #3~5 are not "I"(パソコン, 友達, ブザー).
~ところで emphasizes that it's "just at the moment" than ~ところに. The action/movement in the main clause is done just at the point in/right after the action/movement expressed in the ところ-clause.
~ところに is close to ~ときに. In #4, a friend came to me when I was busy, not just at the moment I was busy.
Is で only ever used when the preceding verb is past tense (~ったところで)?
No. You can use ところで in a conditional sentence, too.
これから勉強しようというところで遊びに来られると、 すごく困る。