Thor said:
I've read about Japan being very xenophobic.
I think perhaps the
institution of government is quite so--- I hope with the challenges of labour that this changes in the next ten years--- I've had good experiences in Japan, (mostly), others I've known found many Japanese to be elitest and rude--- its a generalization though...
Thor said:
Gaijin get questioned alot more then a japanese citizen would.
Maybe, but this is hearsay nonetheless...
Thor said:
The whole chibi/kawaii factor in Japan is really getting old in my books too.
I have bigger problem with the emphasis of 'cute' over 'beauty'...
Thor said:
Like in North America, they are also brand conscious.
Actually, Id be hard pressed to find stronger brand conciousness than exists in Japan--- North America pales in comparison to the rampant manufacture of desire that exists in Japan....
Thor said:
There is group comformity to the point where it gets very disgusting.
The fact that they are forcing deaf and mentally handicapped children in school to sing Kimigayo is pretty good proof of this... But it exists even in the counter culture--- The counter culture is just a big conformity to whatever is in the style guides. I've found Japan knows what cool and not cool is, but not what overkill is....
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That said....
I really don't think you should base your opinion on Japan based on what people write on the internet--- you can I think get a good idea... Just because one person didn't have any difficulties, doens't mean the ten other people who did rae invalidated.
Furthermore, visiting the country, which I recomend, is not going to open your eyes as to exactly what Japan is--- I don't even know myself after 6 months there... I do know that despite its troubles, I love it enough to return and I find the language beautiful in its levels of meaning worth the time and effort to continue learning...
You're not going to get a "Lost in Translation" epiffany at the end of a week---- That's just a movie--- It does mean that yes, in Japan, things are strange and different to us--- but neither is Japan ever all that we expect it or want it to be, and to that point, I think when we find that Japan is not exactly the cultural idea we
think it should be, as outsiders it disapoints us needelssly so.
Japan is a fascinating place, and an amazing language and culture, even a modern culture--- sometimes people can be rude, mostly not, deal, you cant go through life negating something before you've even experienced it.
I hope that you do.
ps.editing jumbles all your text together lately (not just lately but for a while---) if there are any typos left in there, cest la vie...