I think women tend to spend a bit more than men, but I think this estimate is fair:
- hostel: 3000 yen per night
- hotel: 5000 - 8000 yen per night
- 3000 yen per day on food and drinks (less is certainly possible, but this would give you lots of options)
- transport within Tokyo: 1000 yen per day (unlimited) or 500 if you just go from A to B and back
- 1 week rail pass 30.000 yen, if you plan on spontaneously traveling around a bit. You could also take LCC flights for about 5000 - 8000 per leg.
Add cost of flight and shopping money, and there you are.