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I didn't malign your intent in my original post, in fact I assumed the intent was to be helpful. I was also not solely addressing you, just noting the tone of the thread and asking if we could not come down so heavy on the newbs.
 
How about handing guests a piece of paper when they come in? This would give them not only an explanation of the hotel's rules and facilities in a language they understand and with the politeness level they expect, but also a handy reference in case they forget, say, the breakfast ending time.
 
That would work too. The only thing which needs to be explained directly to the guests is a breakfast, cos when its not included in the rate it needs to be purchased either with reception the day before for 10 pounds or in the morning in the breakfast room but then the price is higher. its 12.95. Writing things down about the internet or check out time would deffo work well.
 
nice gaijin said:
I didn't malign your intent in my original post, in fact I assumed the intent was to be helpful. I was also not solely addressing you, just noting the tone of the thread and asking if we could not come down so heavy on the newbs.
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I was going out of my way to try and sound helpful while still giving my opinion on the issue at hand. I wrote out a long response so they would see it wasn't some spur of the moment response. I had no ill intent in my posts and have no idea how it was interpreted that way. I was simply trying to give advice based on my experiences. I know you didn't specifically point to any user but if you saw any issue with the way I addressed the issue please let me know as I don't want to present myself in a way that may seem condescending or unhelpful etc.
 
@OoTmaster certainly not in your first post, but I think you let yourself get dragged down into the muck a little by responding in kind to the OP's increasing negativity. I think whenever we feel attacked or insulted, the first instinct is to reciprocate. When I notice that urge, it's a good trigger to try non-complementary action instead. I first heard about it in a podcast about some police officers in Denmark using it to prevent youths from radicalizing: How Flipping The Script Helped Keep Young Muslims From Joining ISIS : Shots - Health News : NPR

Another article focused more on its use in interpersonal relationships: How Flipping The Script Can Improve Relationships : Shots - Health News : NPR

I didn't mean for anyone to feel called out; it's difficult to read tone from text posts so someone may post thinking they're being nothing but helpful but have it taken the wrong way. When the other participants turn negative it's difficult to keep everything from sliding that way which isn't very productive. It's not about taking the high road or having any claims to moral supremacy, just preventing the level of discourse from deteriorating further.
 
Certainly the second post was reciprocation. I stand by my word that the OP needs to apologize for assigning a stereotype to me that was uncalled for though. Dialogue goes two ways, does it not?
 
The only reason I don't give you an "agree" on that is because an apology that only comes as a result of being asked for is worthless.
 
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nice gaijin said:
That's weird, my links aren't showing as links in my post, but when I quoted myself the links came back... I'd edit but i think the time limit has passed.
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That seems to happen when the trailing slash in the URL is missing. I added it and the link displayed normally.

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