Hmm hostessing is interesting. In New Zealand I had a friend (japanese) who was a hostess in the Japanese bar. It was harmless, and often they would ask if she had any kiwi friends who liked drinking, so she would ring me up and I'd go join them. Was lots of fun, its not that hard to find at least one thing you like about most people.
One Valentines day she rang me up because my favourite Korean pop group (at that time) were there and wanted me to go drink with them. They bought me chocolates and roses, was lots of fun, nothing seedy about it. Im not going to complain about getting bought drinks which are ridiculously overpriced, and singing and having fun.
Dont know that the mama san liked me so much, because I didnt actually work there, so she couldnt charge them more for me drinking with them, whereas the other girls drinks would be about 3 times the already exorbatant price.
Anyway im NOT an extremely beautiful gaijin woman, hahaha so she just thinks its ONLY because she's beautiful that that stuff happens? No sweety, dont think so.
Probably she wasnt wearing any panties and happened to walk up a flight of stairs in front of them... ooh now im just getting nasty. Sorry didnt mean to get that carried away.