I've heard two different things about these constructions, and I was hoping someone could help clarify them. I've got the part that they all literally mean approximately "it would be good if X (despite Y)".
But then I've heard both that they are usually used to give suggestions with an element of annoyance ("it would be good if you did X, despite the fact that you're doing Y and it's annoying me", i.e. "Do X!") and that they are used to express wishes in general ("it would be good if X happened, despite the fact that it might not", i.e "I wish X").
Are these both correct? Is it all about the context? Does it matter whether you use -ba, nara, or -tara?
So for a typically vague example with the subject omitted: 外で遊べばいいのに. Could that mean both "Go play outside (you're annoying me hanging around in here)!" and "I hope I'll play outside (but maybe I'll have to do something else)."?
Thanks!
But then I've heard both that they are usually used to give suggestions with an element of annoyance ("it would be good if you did X, despite the fact that you're doing Y and it's annoying me", i.e. "Do X!") and that they are used to express wishes in general ("it would be good if X happened, despite the fact that it might not", i.e "I wish X").
Are these both correct? Is it all about the context? Does it matter whether you use -ba, nara, or -tara?
So for a typically vague example with the subject omitted: 外で遊べばいいのに. Could that mean both "Go play outside (you're annoying me hanging around in here)!" and "I hope I'll play outside (but maybe I'll have to do something else)."?
Thanks!