1. Yes, both would be correct.
2. In this case, 'anything' would imply an unspecific thing over an very large range of possibilities. The speaker has nothing specific in mind that would be missed. 'Something' would imply the speaker has something specific in mind over a smaller range of possibilities. The speaker probably thinks or knows that something would be missed, which is why the speaker requests the son to go see a physician. More context would be needed but 'something' would be the 'correct' choice here.
3. Again, more context is needed but presumably the speaker, if a doctor, misdiagnosed or misinterpreted something leading the speaker to think that there's something specific that would be missed. Neither is 'wrong' really.