Also Janet, thinking about when you listen to English. If a friend says a long sentence to you in English, are you able to repeat back exactly what she said? In most cases no - because you understood intuitively (did I spell that right?). It's the same for the Japanese. They don't listen to every word being said. Just like us, when someone says something to them the sentence naturally registers. What you'll find as you study Japanese more and more is that Japanese will slowly become more intuative. I've been studying for more than 2 years now, and I find that when a Japanese person speaks to me using words I understand, I don't actually think about what they said. I just "happen to understand" through habit and intuition. It will take a long, long time. It's been almost two and a half for me, and I still can't understand stuff like the news, or anime when I listen to it the first time. Hopefully in another 2 years or so that will change!:?