i agree!! i love Daishi!! Pinkkiller, you're right, it's not okay, but he still needs support! if someones having a hard time, they don't need people reminding them how badly they screwed themselves over; they are most likely very aware of it. i think the most important thing right now is for Daishi's family, friends, and FANS ESPECIALLY to show him that while he made a wrong decision, they will not desert him or reject him so easily. a LOT of people make the same mistake everyday, and while that in NO WAY makes it okay, at least there is still hope that he can recover and make up for lost time. .