Oh, sorry... First of all, thank you for the reply. But I guess I did not explain well enough - none of us are Japanese, we're all learning Japanese now (still at the beginner level). I was just wondering if this would be an acceptable use in Japanese. I.e., given the situation (that I feel some affection for the younger, female friend, but we are not romantically involved), am I being too intimate or forward (or maybe condescending?) by using -chan? The descriptions of the titles that I have been able to find on the web are all rather similar, probably copied from each other, and not quite good enough to allow me to judge the attached cultural values, and the usage boundaries... She's okay with me using a nickname, I am specifically asking about the Japanese usage of マル and ちゃん.
Thanks again