The explanation of "Year-end cleaning"
■Year-end cleaning:年末の大掃除 (2005-12)
In Japan, people have a tradition of doing a general house cleaning at the end of each year.(日本では、毎年年末に家の大掃除をする伝統が あります。)
Called susuharai, the tradition originates from a religious custom in which people cleaned their household altar and rooms to welcome the god of the New Year.(この伝統はすす払いと呼ばれており、新年の神 様をお迎えするために神棚や部屋を掃除するという宗教 的な慣習から始まりました。)
They believed they could drive away the ill luck of the year together with the dust in the house.(家の中のほこりとともに、その年の厄を払うこ とができると考えられていました。)
In the Edo Period, the families of
samurai warriors and court nobles carried out susuharai on December 13th.(江戸時代には、武家や公家がすす払いを12月13日に行って いました。)
Therefore, ordinary people also cleaned their houses on this day.(そのため、庶民もこの日に家を掃除しました。)
Even now, many shrines and temples maintain this custom, although many families do it in late December.(多くの家庭では大掃除は12月下旬に行いま すが、今でも多くの神社仏閣が12月13日のすす払いの習 慣を守っています。)
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たまに帰ってきたならおおそうじ手伝ってよあゆみ!
年越しちゃうよ
Now the first sentence I think goes like:
"Since you've come home, you should help me do a big clean up", the たまに I believe means "once in a great while", going by that it would make sense to be doing a big clean up once in a great while, but what throws me abit is the 帰ってきたなら, because that would be like "since you've come home" (the condition you've come home 'which has been fulfilled') you should help me do a big clean up once in a great while. Doesn't that sound abit strange? Is she saying that Ayumi should help with the/a big clean up at some point? Hands up whose confused by my question?
The なら conditional form can be used also for the present or past fact in a similar sense to ~んだから or "because." This is the biggest difference to the たら/ば conditional.
たまに帰ってきたなら大掃除手伝ってよ ≒ たまに帰 ってきたんだから大掃除手伝ってよ
Because you've come home once in a great while, you should help me do year-end cleaning.
If the sentence is 帰ってきたら大掃除手伝ってよ, it means "If/When you come home, you should help me" as a normal conditional form.
The 年越しちゃうよ = Its the end of the year you know? Is she saying this because its related to the thing about Japanese "refreshing" themselves for the new year (big clean up, new clothes etc...)?
(そうしないと/手伝わないと、大掃除が終わらないうちに)年越しちゃ うよ
(Otherwise,) the new year comes (before we/I finish the cleaning).