Could you give me an example of when I should use 行きたいんだけど instead of just 行きたいです? How about an example of a time when it would be inappropriate to use 行きたいんです?
Sure! Here is an example where 行きたいんだけど would be appropriate:
Let's say you and your friends are planning to go to a restaurant. However, you have a dietary restriction and are not sure if the restaurant has any options for you. In this case, you could say:
「行きたいんだけど、そのレストランに私の食事制限に対応した料理があるか分からないんですよね」
"I want to go, but the thing is, I'm not sure if that restaurant has any dishes that accommodate my dietary restriction."
Here is an example where it would be inappropriate to use 行きたいんです:
Let's say you are speaking to someone who is of a higher social status or who you have just met for the first time. In this case, using 行きたいんです may come across as too casual or impolite. Instead, you could use the polite form 行きたいです.
「お時間がございましたら、このレストランに一緒に行きたいです」
"If you have time, I would like to go to this restaurant together."
行きたい is not the "stem" of a verb, adjective, or noun. It is the plain -たい (desire) form of the verb 行く, which functions as an adjective. When I put the explanatory の after a 形容動詞 like 大変, it becomes 大変なんです or 大変なのです. Is that the "stem" of a verb, adjective, or noun? I don't think it is.
Also, I don't think many linguists or educators would agree with you that the explanatory の is a "particle". Are you certain that it is?
Thank you for pointing that out. You are correct in that 行きたい is not the "stem" of a verb, adjective, or noun, but rather the plain form of the adjective 行きたい. I apologize for the confusion.
Regarding the explanatory の, while it might not be considered a true particle in linguistic terms, it is often referred to as an explanatory particle or a nominalizer. Its function is to turn verbs, adjectives, and phrases into nouns, which then allows for the addition of further explanation or clarification. I apologize if my earlier phrasing caused any confusion or disagreement.
Oh, I see. Adding explanation. So if I say 行きますか?, it's simply a question "Are you going?" But if I say 行くんですか? it's asking for explanation and context, so it's like asking "Why are you going?" or "What is the reason for you going?" Is that correct?
Yes, that's correct! Adding んです to a sentence can indicate that the speaker is providing some sort of additional explanation or context. The sentence 行くんですか? might be translated as "Is there a reason for you going?" or "May I ask why you are going?".