Hello Nebulahime. The meeting is generally considered a waste of time by the teachers, but it's only because of a recent change in schedule that it became an inconvenience to this extent. The day of the meeting is going to be changed to accommodate others' schedule, who would start teaching right after the meeting. For me it will still require coming an hour early. It takes me about an hour to get to work.
As for ignoring the rules... a few months back, they instituted a mandatory workshop that required us to come to work two hours early twice a month. I stopped going and was confronted about it, but they dropped the matter; presumably because another employee attended but complained and two others stopped attending and then stopped working there around this time. So I think taking a stand can work if there's some solidarity, but it seems I'm the only one inconvenienced by the new meeting schedule.
As for the 55 minutes... it's true that I can run away to another room and study Japanese during that time, and that's what I'm leaning towards doing, even though it is still an inconvenience. While I don't appreciate the coercion, I'd end up wasting around as much time researching and eventually taking legal action. Also, if I'm to take said supervisor's warning seriously, it seems more prudent to acquiesce - at least for most of the meetings. This way, I might be able to retain the possibility of a future recommendation.
To that end, I've just written a colleague who stopped working here to ask about when she asked for the letter (i.e. how many months before the end of her contract) and from whom she requested it. If I'm not mistaken, she went straight to a higher-up.
Do any of you have any interesting experience with letters of recommendation and the like? Also, do you think many employers would hold it against me if I tried to apply for a job before the end of my current contract (1 year)? Again, I don't have to write that in my CV, but they could always call the company to confirm that I left prematurely. Or is considered acceptable to end a contract prematurely if you give sufficient notice? How long is that notice?
The timing of the meeting makes sense then. You want to have everyone there to be able to discuss matters for the day and then let people start working. I can understand how the transit makes this a bit more of a struggle, but again, use that time to study for the JLPT. That is turly going to be your ticket out of this kind of position.
I'm just gonna say this: there's strength in numbers and there isn't. Before I quit my third Girl Scout troop, the leaders kept changing the meeting dates because it "interrupted family time" or they would cancel last minute for no reason other than their kids had too much homework. The rest of the troop was incredibly inconvenienced, as we were working on our Silver award at the time. The only reason half of us even have out Silver Awards (the one before the one that gets your scholarships) is because we did the work on our own, despite this supposedly being a group effort. My point is, even if a lot of people complain, that doesn't always change the fact that the higher ups have the power and they choose how to use it.
As far as the 55 minutes left and hour transit, that's almost two hours you can put towards JLPT study on a daily basis, assuming you take a train to work. Get books, podcasts, CDs, practice tests, and really crack down on your studying. I cannot express enough how important it is for you to get higher JLPT certification. It's going to make your life a heck of a lot easier and open new doors to opportunities you didn't have.
Networking is good though. It gets you information faster or news you wouldn't have heard otherwise. I only knew about the positions I work now because of connections I have. Heck, most of the workshops I attend have speed-networking sessions at some point. It's useful thing, regardless of where you live. Now, I've never worked in an Eikaiwa--and hopefully never will have to--but it was at the very least to my understanding that the pay was hourly, and not dictated by how many patrons you work with per day. That's the impression I always took away from job listings anyway.
Relating to that, unless your friend's cafe is of a smaller size and can't accommodate the same pay you've been getting, I don't see why transferring would be too big an issue. You could still do it, but switching jobs, especially to ones that pay less, means you're going to make sure you can live within your means under a smaller paycheck. It's not impossible, but it might mean giving up certain luxuries to make ends meet. The thing to keep in mind with that though is that
it won't last forever. You're taking efforts to rise in the ranks as it is with your potential for N3 JLPT certification.
And finally, to address your last point, I actually haven't had much experience with letters of recommendation. Then again, that probably has to do more with my being a decade younger than you and only working part-time positions. I may know more than my years suggest, but there are still some questions I can't answer. This is one of them. As far as premature severance and notice go, I'd really just rely on your friend for that information. It varies greatly depending on the company and their relationship with you. I would need to give a little over a month's notice at my current job, but someone else I know in a similar position would only need to give 2 weeks. Different companies work in different ways, and Eikaiwa are kinda unusual to begin with. Go with someone who's been there before especially.
And study for that JLPT dangit! You've only got a little more time until July!
Here:
問題例に挑戦しよう | 日本語能力試験 JLPT It's a lot shorter than the real thing, but it's enough to give you a feel of what each level is going to look like. You can change the language of the page at the top, but the sample questions, in addition to the actual test, will be entirely in Japanese. I've got a whole folder of JLPT resources if you're interested in them too. Most of them are online and free too.
Best of luck to ya