よ indeed is usually used to soften the nuance of order with imperative forms. For instance, やめろよ/やめてよ is often used in a situation where friends/lovers frolic about. However, it can express the speaker's irritation with a falling intonation, and also can be a soft/tender advise/suggestion with a rising intonation(e.g. こんなことはもうやめろよ↑ (=しちゃだめだよ)). Thus, it totally depends on the context including intonation, tone, etc. whether よ should be used or not, as always. (Note it's said that sentence final particles are one of the hardest, or maybe the most hardest thing to grasp for non-native learners, even for advanced or near-native learners.)