@OSnap don't worry, if I'm still allowed here than you're more than welcome to join.
oo I have a question for everyone here! Instead of just reading Aoi's twitter posts, why don't you get a twitter and talk to him? wouldn't that be more fun - well if he responds that is.
ahh I don't think he should worry about the band being together too much and leading to a break up. All bands end eventually but look at some longer lasting bands like L'Arc en Ciel, Dir en grey, the return of XJapan, Phantasmagoria keeps coming and going. If they're getting tired of one another or if even gets to that point, they should do side or solo projects for a while then come back and do TheGazettE stuff (the way L'Arc en ciel does). He's thinking too much, he needs to go out and do something with himself in his free time.