Thank you for all the replies!
So it's set for me now, I will try and learn as best I can Hiragana first along with Romaji, as I started in my first post I am very much a novice still, the only characters I have learned and can read *very slowly* are simple characters like i, u, o, ku, ke, ko, shi, tsu, te, to, na, nu, no, ha, ho, n - I have to type these in Romaji as I'm at work and don't have the language pack installed but I can read them in Hiragana, even words like onnanoko read in Hiragana are taking me some good time but I'm getting there!
Also, could anyone take a look at this image?
omniglot.com/images/writing/hiragana.gif
To me it looks like it's laid out as Romaji - Hiragana - ???, what is the 3rd set of characters?
domo arigato ^^