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i have been told that japanese women are very shy of men from different countrys and much prefer japanese men is this true, i'd like someone to clarify this please..thankies ^_^
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what is that for kinda crap ??? that's racism dude !!! >:| Just go with who you want and loves u too !! And no, they don't prefer all japanese men, hence that's why there are also a lot of japanese girls with foreign guys ;-)Doc said:I'm guessing the answer is that if you're a foreigner go with the women of your own country, not Japanese. The same applying to Japanese women.
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RockLee said:what is that for kinda crap ??? that's racism dude !!! >:| Just go with who you want and loves u too !! And no, they don't prefer all japanese men, hence that's why there are also a lot of japanese girls with foreign guys ;-)
Doc said:it seemed to me that the message was to not even bother trying to get a Japanese girlfriend.
so often that we don't really have the energy or patience to answer them anymore. We've discussed it many times before, and the conclusion is, of course, that some Japanese women will be interested in foreign men and others won't.i have been told that japanese women are very shy of men from different countrys and much prefer japanese men is this true, i'd like someone to clarify this please..thankies ^_^
Brooker said:The point was that it's not any easier to get a Japanese girl than it is to get a girl from your home country and might even be harder. A lot of guys go after Japanese girls because they think it'll be easier to get them.
Sorry, but we get questions like this... so often that we don't really have the energy or patience to answer them anymore. We've discussed it many times before, and the conclusion is, of course, that some Japanese women will be interested in foreign men and others won't.
kirei_na_me said:It doesn't baffle me. It happens all the time. People thinking Japanese girls are going to go ga-ga over them because they're foreign. What people don't know, is that after they go ga-ga, you'll probably be thinking about going bye-bye. That was bad...
Anyway, I've said it so many times before. Intercultural relationships are not easy. You might say that all relationships are not easy, but when you marry interculturally, there are more obstacles to overcome. Anyone who says there aren't are being completely unrealistic, naive, totally oblivious, in denial, etc.
Errm..., sorry, but emotions are involved in sex as well. Without an emotion as a male you wouldn't get hard, for example.Doc said:Sex is a physical act, mainly for reproduction. Love is a pure emotional act, and is mainly for the development of human relationships.
Isn't that a bit contradictory to what you said above? If sex would be so meaningless, a simple physical act like eg. jogging, it's not really cheating when you have sex with someone else. Or is it?With the way sex is considered today, it's no wonder so many people cheat on one another.
In the old days, many people didn't marry their true love, but someone who fitted their social & economical position. The old days may not have been as nice as you seem to think.In the old days many people found their true love, and married them even if it was just the first person they fell in love with. Why? Because they were more educated on the importance of giving and taking in a relationship, as well as, the other factors that drive it.
That's true. Actually, you often can understand the relationships of others much better than your own. In your own relationship often automatisms evolve that you don't recognise anymore.you don't have to be in a relationship to understand the inside and outside of one.
That again seems quite naive. The involved interaction in a relationship usually makes any previous observation obsolete.Observation, study, and objective thought can help you find that special someone the first time out.
bossel said:Errm..., sorry, but emotions are involved in sex as well. Without an emotion as a male you wouldn't get hard, for example.
Isn't that a bit contradictory to what you said above? If sex would be so meaningless, a simple physical act like eg. jogging, it's not really cheating when you have sex with someone else. Or is it?
In the old days, many people didn't marry their true love, but someone who fitted their social & economical position. The old days may not have been as nice as you seem to think.
That's true. Actually, you often can understand the relationships of others much better than your own. In your own relationship often automatisms evolve that you don't recognise anymore.
That again seems quite naive. The involved interaction in a relationship usually makes any previous observation obsolete.
Chiaki_Kuriyama_Fan said:i have been told that japanese women are very shy of men from different countrys and much prefer japanese men is this true, i'd like someone to clarify this please..thankies ^_^
Chiaki_Kuriyama_Fan said:alright, maybe this thread should be locked now?
Chiaki_Kuriyama_Fan said:i didnt make this topic to make people think that i thought getting a japanese girlfriend would be easier than getting one from your own country.
And plus it isnt my fault that i generally prefer japanese women to english women is it?!
Although I can't in good conscience recommend a Japanese mate if your motivation is from a negative place, for instance loneliness, curiosity, or neediness. Generally speaking the people aren't receptive to being called every night, receiving tons of unsolicited emails, etc., hearing the lastest on all your problems....I don't know if you've ever been there or not, Chiaki_Kuriyama_Fan, shyness might not be the best word but it does take a certain sensitivity to communicate well. Try picking up someone from the neighborhood first, at thirteen....Chiaki_Kuriyama_Fan said:i have been told that japanese women are very shy of men from different countrys and much prefer japanese men is this true, i'd like someone to clarify this please..thankies ^_^
blue hair and blonde eyes ???? you mean, blonde hair and blue eyes right???RIIIIIGHT???? ☝BlackenedEyes said:that is why they might run away if they see some one with blue hair and blonde eyes aproach them.)