I'll be as careful with my language as I can here. This is a serious post...
So the last few months of my stay in Japan, having absorbed, I think, the country's sensibility to a large degree, I began to notice a big percentage of people being highly suggestive toward me (I'm talking an easy majority here): couples, wives in plain view of husbands, mothers with daughters, men, the elderly, very young people (I mean older elementary or young junior high)...I recall one (what I now call) run-of-the-mill occurrence when three generations of females in one family pantomimed with water bottles on a train. Never mind what I indulged in/didn't indulge in. The preponderance of this behavior has made me severely question marrying an Asian woman. This is absolutely true. I asked some japanese women about it and they'd say "mmm, okay desu!" I'd press them about the married women and mothers and they'd say that wasn't okay. But that doesn't change the fact of what I saw. Beware guys. I've seen the cause of probably 95% of mixed divorces in Japan. Most Western men marry Japanese without any clue of the sheer scale of this. I think it falls under the feeling of mottainai. That's the problem. We have no clue about the scale of this in the West.
So the last few months of my stay in Japan, having absorbed, I think, the country's sensibility to a large degree, I began to notice a big percentage of people being highly suggestive toward me (I'm talking an easy majority here): couples, wives in plain view of husbands, mothers with daughters, men, the elderly, very young people (I mean older elementary or young junior high)...I recall one (what I now call) run-of-the-mill occurrence when three generations of females in one family pantomimed with water bottles on a train. Never mind what I indulged in/didn't indulge in. The preponderance of this behavior has made me severely question marrying an Asian woman. This is absolutely true. I asked some japanese women about it and they'd say "mmm, okay desu!" I'd press them about the married women and mothers and they'd say that wasn't okay. But that doesn't change the fact of what I saw. Beware guys. I've seen the cause of probably 95% of mixed divorces in Japan. Most Western men marry Japanese without any clue of the sheer scale of this. I think it falls under the feeling of mottainai. That's the problem. We have no clue about the scale of this in the West.