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Finding my father.!!!

jet delacruz

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Hello Sir/Maam , i'm sorry i'm new in this website and i'm not that really good in english. i'm a 16 year old boy I live in philippines. I never get the chance to see my father ever since i was a born my father is a japanese and i really want to see my father although my mom keep saying that my father is dead i don't really believe her cause she doesn't have any info to prove that my father is dead so since i was 10 i learn to find my father in the internet. I hope you can help me sir.
sorry for my english.
 

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it's hard to say what's true, but have you considered your mother may be trying to protect you from something?
 

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I really don't need to see my father
Just some info of him is enough for me
I don't want to grow old without knowing some things about him.
or what kind of life he have.
 

Mike Cash

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I really don't need to see my father
Just some info of him is enough for me
I don't want to grow old without knowing some things about him.
or what kind of life he have.

Do you know anything about him? His name? Anything at all?
 

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I know his name and my mother knows some info about him
but that's not enough
 

Mike Cash

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I know his name and my mother knows some info about him
but that's not enough

I think you should consider there a couple of possibilities:

1. He really is dead.

2. There is some reason your mother doesn't want any connection with him or may be embarrassed to tell you about him.

It is ungrateful and disrespectful to your mother to continue to ask her about it. It is sad you don't know your father, but be grateful for what you DO have, a mother who loves you and takes care of you.
 
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