I have been made to understand through a series of rigorous research that Japanese women are kinky and naughty in bed and yet the respect a strong-willed man, both physically and in character. Whatever happened to the days when African women were like that, mordern women here in South Africa confuse success with respect. They seek respect so much because of their now advanced social status they fail to coexist with their male counterpart in a harmonic exercise that culminates in solid relationship, thus a solid family, solid neighborhood and a solid country