bakasentai
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- 13 Sep 2012
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I dont know the difference between 3d japanese males and 2d, but if they're anything like there 2d anime counter parts, 1/25 is worth the time and 11/20 are horrible r.... people... Inappropriate jokes aside.
My view of Japanese males is largely based off anime preconceptions which are very negative, both from a male and female perspective. The male being, that "good looking guys just look for new women to "conquer" especially taken girls", the female "that all there interested in is toying with women till there bored of them, and will easily move on". (Then theres the negative stereotype of the ones who write theres stories...)
In response to BruceC, what there interested in is the blonde hair, blue eyes, curves and bust, American white women are stereotypically known to poses, a misconception that is easy to pick up from anime.
In response to 42kyokai, that's not surprising considering that in there culture, sex is pushed around so much it wouldn't be surprising if they're desensitized to it. Any vivid anime/game otaku(such as myself) can tell you that you can't walk away with normal sexual interest. The sheer amount that is found in it after about a year or two alone, women's breast start to lose interest(im curious if hikimori's are a escalating problem there, for a while they were making animes about them). But if the way anime portrays it, that there shifting from 3d to 2d, then its understandable.
In response to habahiroi, we would have to know a number of things because it could be a number of factors, could be appearance, personality, could be the guys your interested in (only interested in looks or a personality interest and what are those criteria), the location you search(for example, from my experience, depending on location Black men have different preferences, White, Black, Asian always acceptable but some are only.)
In response to Rinoue, i had been narrowing down on that view, excellent point. The second one is very fees able. Foreign women(white), if i'm not mistaken, are know for being experienced, and aggressive(at least as far as anime defines it). Japanese, especially this generations males, are timid and self conscious. It could be that they don't feel as though they couldn't satisfy you mentally and physically or that they wouldn't be able to keep up with cultural gaps fear of what could happen or what they don't know that they may feel that they should know in order to date you. As for long distance relationship, I would think that most wouldn't get that far along in the considerations. It could also be an old view that I believe still stands up in current japan society(largely adapted into anime, greatest factor in most cases), that they dislike (equal)competition, they dislike women who've had experience in sex, that they like to feel security by being the only one into(sorry for the pun), the woman they like, heart's and insecurity by having to compete with other men in romantic or sexual activity. From what I understand a lot of female youths are becoming less and less recluse and more assertive and wild. from the perspective of an otaku/gamer 70% of romantic fan media(the place where there delusions are unrestrained) and games are about conquering "untainted" young(looking) females(20%+ of that by force). (i get my statistic by leaving out yaoi though, that would complicate things so much if i added that in). I'd have to say that might be your biggest draw back, Japanese men like to conquer and if you have sexual experience above them then they can't do it in the place that counts most to them, from what i understand it shouldn't be just you but any woman.
If any of you feel my opinions based off anime are invalid, we can debate how a decades(as well as account of there history) of these preconceptions growing stronger and stronger in the growing anime community of japan gives weigh to some validity, if not completely to a majority of the anime community. (best example outside of anime, young Japanese school girls selling there bodies or simply attention to businessmen men(there's even a story I heard awhile back about women paying doctors to fix there hymens so they could sell there "first time" for high prices) examples of Japanese males intent to conquer(that they pay high prices for first, which is something they've done for centuries, Geisha for instance)).
My view of Japanese males is largely based off anime preconceptions which are very negative, both from a male and female perspective. The male being, that "good looking guys just look for new women to "conquer" especially taken girls", the female "that all there interested in is toying with women till there bored of them, and will easily move on". (Then theres the negative stereotype of the ones who write theres stories...)
In response to BruceC, what there interested in is the blonde hair, blue eyes, curves and bust, American white women are stereotypically known to poses, a misconception that is easy to pick up from anime.
In response to 42kyokai, that's not surprising considering that in there culture, sex is pushed around so much it wouldn't be surprising if they're desensitized to it. Any vivid anime/game otaku(such as myself) can tell you that you can't walk away with normal sexual interest. The sheer amount that is found in it after about a year or two alone, women's breast start to lose interest(im curious if hikimori's are a escalating problem there, for a while they were making animes about them). But if the way anime portrays it, that there shifting from 3d to 2d, then its understandable.
In response to habahiroi, we would have to know a number of things because it could be a number of factors, could be appearance, personality, could be the guys your interested in (only interested in looks or a personality interest and what are those criteria), the location you search(for example, from my experience, depending on location Black men have different preferences, White, Black, Asian always acceptable but some are only.)
In response to Rinoue, i had been narrowing down on that view, excellent point. The second one is very fees able. Foreign women(white), if i'm not mistaken, are know for being experienced, and aggressive(at least as far as anime defines it). Japanese, especially this generations males, are timid and self conscious. It could be that they don't feel as though they couldn't satisfy you mentally and physically or that they wouldn't be able to keep up with cultural gaps fear of what could happen or what they don't know that they may feel that they should know in order to date you. As for long distance relationship, I would think that most wouldn't get that far along in the considerations. It could also be an old view that I believe still stands up in current japan society(largely adapted into anime, greatest factor in most cases), that they dislike (equal)competition, they dislike women who've had experience in sex, that they like to feel security by being the only one into(sorry for the pun), the woman they like, heart's and insecurity by having to compete with other men in romantic or sexual activity. From what I understand a lot of female youths are becoming less and less recluse and more assertive and wild. from the perspective of an otaku/gamer 70% of romantic fan media(the place where there delusions are unrestrained) and games are about conquering "untainted" young(looking) females(20%+ of that by force). (i get my statistic by leaving out yaoi though, that would complicate things so much if i added that in). I'd have to say that might be your biggest draw back, Japanese men like to conquer and if you have sexual experience above them then they can't do it in the place that counts most to them, from what i understand it shouldn't be just you but any woman.
If any of you feel my opinions based off anime are invalid, we can debate how a decades(as well as account of there history) of these preconceptions growing stronger and stronger in the growing anime community of japan gives weigh to some validity, if not completely to a majority of the anime community. (best example outside of anime, young Japanese school girls selling there bodies or simply attention to businessmen men(there's even a story I heard awhile back about women paying doctors to fix there hymens so they could sell there "first time" for high prices) examples of Japanese males intent to conquer(that they pay high prices for first, which is something they've done for centuries, Geisha for instance)).