I could use some help.
My wife is Japanese. Recently I discovered she was writing messages to a Japanese guy that seem suspicious. I humbly request someone to read them and tell me whether is is flirting or having an affair.
Take it from a man happily married over 40 years , have trust in your wife. Allow her to have male & female friends in her life and don't worry about it. Until you actually catch her in bed with someone , believe she loves only you and trust her in every way. You will be a lot more happy in life that way than spying on her. Tell her you love her every day with lots of hugs and kisses. Really listen to what she has to say when she talks with you and agree with her as often as possible. Treat her right and you will never have to worry about her looking for another man.