- 10 Apr 2004
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We get a lot of dudes on this site, who probably aren't doing too well with the ladies back home, who are interested in going to Japan because they think they'll have better luck with the ladies there. I don't know if it's just me, but my experiences dating at home are always much more positive than the experiences I had while in Japan. The attempts I made at dating while in Japan always went south because I didn't know the customs when it comes to dating. Her actions and signals always seemed very mysterious to me, as I'm sure mine did to her. At home, things seem to go a little more smoothly because I know "the rules of the game".
So the point is, don't think your love life is going to improve ten fold while you're in Japan just because they'll be thinking your lack of chop stick skills is really cute. It might actually be harder there than it is for you at home. There are no shortcuts. If you're having trouble with the ladies at home, you're just going to have to find some other way to improve your coolness.
So the point is, don't think your love life is going to improve ten fold while you're in Japan just because they'll be thinking your lack of chop stick skills is really cute. It might actually be harder there than it is for you at home. There are no shortcuts. If you're having trouble with the ladies at home, you're just going to have to find some other way to improve your coolness.