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Doing more harm than good perhaps? Seems a trademark of the U.S. military.
Too bad you did not start this with a scam. Something like telling the family that your daughter in law suffers from a genetic disorder or some disease where she needs a blood relative family donor. But their guard is up now.
It seems to me that its a natural right that any human being know exactly who their genetic parents are. Any custodial parent who keeps that information hidden is being extremely irrational, unfair, and childish....but what's new? Not just for Japanese, but the human race in general; people can be awfully stupid and selfish and do, ahem, more harm than good.
Oh well, you still might try that scam.
Or try to dig up somebody who can nicely and clearly explain to these people what irrational, selfish and childish *****s they are being by withholding your daughter in law's personal information from her. Or perhaps the daughter needs to tell them nothing can erase their position and history of being her custodial parents and how much she appreciates them having raised and taken care of her. The documentation will change nothing between them.
I was also thinking of a scam where she would need the paperwork in America for her marriage to be legal. But I guess its a bit late to try that lie out now.
I guess I should state clearly that I hate lies and scams, but in this case, I consider it fighting fire with fire. Failing to turn over the daughter's information to her is lower than scamming and lying.
Anyway, every soldier should know that if a frontal assault fails, you try to flank your opponent.
Too bad you did not start this with a scam. Something like telling the family that your daughter in law suffers from a genetic disorder or some disease where she needs a blood relative family donor. But their guard is up now.
It seems to me that its a natural right that any human being know exactly who their genetic parents are. Any custodial parent who keeps that information hidden is being extremely irrational, unfair, and childish....but what's new? Not just for Japanese, but the human race in general; people can be awfully stupid and selfish and do, ahem, more harm than good.
Oh well, you still might try that scam.
Or try to dig up somebody who can nicely and clearly explain to these people what irrational, selfish and childish *****s they are being by withholding your daughter in law's personal information from her. Or perhaps the daughter needs to tell them nothing can erase their position and history of being her custodial parents and how much she appreciates them having raised and taken care of her. The documentation will change nothing between them.
I was also thinking of a scam where she would need the paperwork in America for her marriage to be legal. But I guess its a bit late to try that lie out now.
I guess I should state clearly that I hate lies and scams, but in this case, I consider it fighting fire with fire. Failing to turn over the daughter's information to her is lower than scamming and lying.
Anyway, every soldier should know that if a frontal assault fails, you try to flank your opponent.